Dominant and Submissive

Dominant and Submissive

Average relationships usually end up having a mediocre or cold sex life. Life is too short for “frozen sexuality;” for shallow intimacy and boring conversations. God’s sexual best for a couple is to burn for one another with erotic love. Solomon said, “Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose—don’t ever quit taking delight in her body.” (Proverbs 5:19) ...

Is Romance Uninteresting?

Is Romance Uninteresting?

Buddha said, “When you like a flower, you just pluck it; when you love a flower, you water it every day.” Romance within a relationship is like water–without it, marriage will eventually dry up and die. Romance is an art, and it is intentional; to most people, it must be learned. The following quiz will help you to rate your current range of romance. ...

Misogyny

Misogyny

Most people would agree that your opinion and voice matter. In some direct or indirect way, your judgment influences the people around you. The religious generation that formed after the crucifixion of Christ were less knowledgeable that his own disciples—who incidentally were continuously misunderstanding Christ’s teachings themselves. Should we be surprised that hundreds of years later, misogynistic men were veering off on to roads of their own opinions and biases regarding sexuality? I’m not. ...

Why I Left the Church of Christ

Why I Left the Church of Christ

To Be Clear

I currently don't identify well with the typical Christian or church-goer. If you read Reversed Conversion, you will clearly find that the word "church" has nothing to do with a "brick & mortar building." Therefore, when I state, "I left the Church of Christ," I'm declaring I no longer feel compelled to associate with the current trend of "going to church"—especially when in the context of Sunday Services.

Excerpt From REVERSED CONVERSION

A recent article in Relevant Magazine points out, “Many churches today spend most of their revenue on salaries, building mortgages and other material supplements to ministry. Look at any church budget and you’ll probably find 1 or 2 percent of church funds allocated to benevolence—helping poor people in need.”1 So, in my opinion, today’s model is obsolete. But beyond the practical dysfunction is the actual illness of organized religion—it’s not set up to enhance your initial conversion or produce ongoing awakenings. Though it means well, in the majority of cases, it merely indoctrinates you to avoid certain people, places, and things—labeling this as "discipleship." ...

The Return of Christ

The Return of Christ

An Excerpt From BLURRED

Lesson Three

“Then was Jesus led up of the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil … he had fasted forty days and forty nights.” (Matthew 4:1,2 ASV) Coming face-to-face with the enemy of our soul is no easy task. Even I had to face moments of crippling temptation. For the record, this was not my first time. And this particular temptation that writers recorded was among the easiest to overcome. Though it was exhausting not to turn stones into bread, I was far more spiritually endowed than Moses and Elijah; both participated in 40-day fasts themselves. ...

Sexual Foreplay

Sexual Foreplay

sexual foreplayWhat can I say? I was born in 1959 and grew up watching James Bond. Since then, there have been twenty-three Bond movies to date. I’ve seen them all. Nail-biting foreplay is about writing your own Bond-girl script for your partner.   This is not for the fainthearted. Nail-biting sexual foreplay is when you set your partner up to become your prey and experience the thrill of the chase. ...